The Awful Truth about Goal Setting - by Bob Bly

    • 1373 posts
    December 11, 2014 10:56 AM PST

    One of the newsletters to which I subscribe is Bob Bly's Direct Response Newsletter.  I thought he made a good point in today's letter, and wanted to share it with you:

    Dear Direct Response Letter Subscriber:

    Some of the most successful people I know -- Brian Tracy and
    Mark Ford among them -- repeatedly stress the importance of
    setting goals.

    So I am almost ashamed to make this confession, but since my
    guiding principle as a writer is to always tell the unvarnished
    and brutal truth, here it is:

    I have never had goals. Never. Not when I started in business.
    Not throughout my career. And not today.

    Does this doom me to failure?

    In a recent issue of his newsletter, Matt Furey explained, far
    more eloquently than I could, how many folks have no goals and
    are still successful. He calls them "unconsciously successful."
    Matt writes:

    "Person finds his passion. He begins to practice. He realizes,
    early on, he has a talent for what he's doing that is above and
    beyond the norm. Ideas come to him no matter what he's doing. He
    doesn't know who or what turned this on in him. It just IS.

    "Based upon his own level of awareness, he doesn't visualize,
    dream, imagine, or 'think positive' in any way about what he's
    doing. He just does it.

    "Oddly enough, the unconsciously successful person does not
    relate to or understand those who set goals, visualize, or do
    their best to be positive. He doesn't see any of it as
    necessary, valid, valuable or useful. He thinks of it as a
    complete waste of time.

    "Look at some of these big time athletes. Oozing with ability.
    They can't explain how they do it. Can't teach at all. Only do.
    I'm betting Mozart didn't have goals either.

    "Napoleon Hill is wrong. First of all, thinking doesn't work.
    Second, Hill makes no room for 'flow' people. Third, he doesn't
    cover the basic premise of setting a sensible goal based on your
    strengths" -- instead, insisting that anyone can do anything they
    desire, which anyone with a lick of sense knows is not at all
    the case.

    So if I don't focus on goals, what do I focus on? Answer:
    projects. Specifically, the immediate project on my desk at the
    moment.

    I learned this success technique -- focusing on the work at hand,
    not on long-term goals -- from Burt Manning, CEO of J. Walter
    Thompson ad agency, when I interviewed him for a book years ago
    and asked him for the secret to his success. Manning said:

    "Unlike a lot of people who have been successful in business,
    I've focused almost exclusively on the immediate assignment or
    project in hand.

    "My mode of operation was to take whatever that assignment was
    and try to do it better than it had ever been done before in the
    history of the world. That was it.

    "Then I'd try to do the next one the best. The projects, in my
    mind, were never a means to an end -- they were the end."

    We had that talk in 1981. It was a revelation, and I have
    followed Manning's modus operandi ever since. Here's my theory
    on why project focus is better than goal focus:

    Focusing on goals, you focus on you -- what you want, what you
    like, what you need.

    Focusing on projects, you focus on the client -- what he wants,
    likes, desires, and needs.

    And the quickest road to success is to give others what they
    want. If you make them successful, they will in turn make you
    successful.

    In this one thing, Napoleon Hill got it right. He said, "It is
    literally true that you can succeed best and quickest by helping
    others to succeed."

    Sincerely,

    Bob Bly
    Copywriter / Consultant
    31 Cheyenne Dr.
    Montville, NJ 07045
    Phone 973-263-0562
    Fax 973-263-0613
    www.bly.com

     
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    • 54 posts
    December 15, 2014 3:30 PM PST

    In practice, I'm a lot like Bly -- I've never been good at looking at the big picture. My goal has generally been to do the best possible job on whatever I'm supposed to be working on.

    Having said that, I have to disagree with Bly when he says that Napoleon Hill was wrong. The fact that he, and I, have done well without using Hill's goal-setting and visualization techniques doesn't mean that they don't work... it just means we've found something different that works for us. Hill's advice has worked awfully well for a whole lot of people. 

    In the words of the great philosopher Sly Stone, different strokes for different folks.