Dear Direct Response Letter Subscriber: Some of the most successful people I know -- Brian Tracy and Mark Ford among them -- repeatedly stress the importance of setting goals. So I am almost ashamed to make this confession, but since my guiding principle as a writer is to always tell the unvarnished and brutal truth, here it is: I have never had goals. Never. Not when I started in business. Not throughout my career. And not today. Does this doom me to failure? In a recent issue of his newsletter, Matt Furey explained, far more eloquently than I could, how many folks have no goals and are still successful. He calls them "unconsciously successful." Matt writes: "Person finds his passion. He begins to practice. He realizes, early on, he has a talent for what he's doing that is above and beyond the norm. Ideas come to him no matter what he's doing. He doesn't know who or what turned this on in him. It just IS. "Based upon his own level of awareness, he doesn't visualize, dream, imagine, or 'think positive' in any way about what he's doing. He just does it. "Oddly enough, the unconsciously successful person does not relate to or understand those who set goals, visualize, or do their best to be positive. He doesn't see any of it as necessary, valid, valuable or useful. He thinks of it as a complete waste of time. "Look at some of these big time athletes. Oozing with ability. They can't explain how they do it. Can't teach at all. Only do. I'm betting Mozart didn't have goals either. "Napoleon Hill is wrong. First of all, thinking doesn't work. Second, Hill makes no room for 'flow' people. Third, he doesn't cover the basic premise of setting a sensible goal based on your strengths" -- instead, insisting that anyone can do anything they desire, which anyone with a lick of sense knows is not at all the case. So if I don't focus on goals, what do I focus on? Answer: projects. Specifically, the immediate project on my desk at the moment. I learned this success technique -- focusing on the work at hand, not on long-term goals -- from Burt Manning, CEO of J. Walter Thompson ad agency, when I interviewed him for a book years ago and asked him for the secret to his success. Manning said: "Unlike a lot of people who have been successful in business, I've focused almost exclusively on the immediate assignment or project in hand. "My mode of operation was to take whatever that assignment was and try to do it better than it had ever been done before in the history of the world. That was it. "Then I'd try to do the next one the best. The projects, in my mind, were never a means to an end -- they were the end." We had that talk in 1981. It was a revelation, and I have followed Manning's modus operandi ever since. Here's my theory on why project focus is better than goal focus: Focusing on goals, you focus on you -- what you want, what you like, what you need. Focusing on projects, you focus on the client -- what he wants, likes, desires, and needs. And the quickest road to success is to give others what they want. If you make them successful, they will in turn make you successful. In this one thing, Napoleon Hill got it right. He said, "It is literally true that you can succeed best and quickest by helping others to succeed." Sincerely,
Bob Bly Copywriter / Consultant 31 Cheyenne Dr. Montville, NJ 07045 Phone 973-263-0562 Fax 973-263-0613 www.bly.com I welcome your feedback! Did you like today's message? What other topics would you like to see covered in my e-mails? Please let me know at: [email protected] As always, please feel free to forward this e-mail to a friend! If you liked this essay, and want to read 75 more just like it, get my new book "Don't Wear a Cowboy Hat Unless You are a Cowboy -- and Other Grumblings from a Cranky Curmudgeon," which you can order here: www.bly.com/KindleCowboy Disclaimer: The Direct Response Letter only recommends products that we've either personally checked out ourselves, or that come from people we know and trust. For doing so, we sometimes receive a sales commission.
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